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    its not always right that

    By Anonymous, Created on: 20/12/2002, Last updated on: 12/08/2010

    » actually i have a thai pretty girlfriend who being my girl for a year now. and i think thai women are serious and good one bcoz of i've known thai friends both men and women and they're not think about your money in their brain! now a days, they can work and earn as much as men can do. don't look...

    • Anonymous commented : lity Thai men are rare due to sex ratio and quality education in Thailand.

    • Anonymous commented : to Thailand, go there for the sex trade. It is sad but true. And they make life so much worse and harder for those men like me that are truly in love with a Thai woman, and simply went to Thailand for all the right reasons. Over all Thai woman are no different than any other woman. If a man is willing to realy and truly get to know one. Yes there are some cultural differences, but they make things more interesting. There is good and bad in all people and races. Ive been to Thailand, germany, korea, saudi, kuwait, mexico, canada and all over the united states. Woman are the same every where, they just want to be loved and respected.

    • Anonymous commented : and felt deeply hurt that the sex trade is the biggest pull for a lot of people to vist, i really hope the future for Thailand that more and more jobs can be created to wipe out this degrading life style. I met a young girl 26, i am 29 we spent 4 days walking the beaches,dining, shopping each day for me, she became the reason i wanted to get up in the morning. now im back in uk thinking about her all the time. wishing she was here with me. not all men are voilent, we are only on this planet for a short time, i dont belive real love is lost yet.

    • 27 replies, 36,653 views

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    Getting married

    By Anonymous, Created on: 04/04/2003, Last updated on: 18/04/2006

    » I have a girl friend from Thailand whom I would like to marry. I am concerned though about the differences between Thai culture and my own. (USA) I often don't understand her. We lack intimacy in our relationship which she doesn't seem concerned about. She says it is because I am not Thai. I...

    • Anonymous commented : in real cultures ,you will not be able to have SEX before you marrige that why you shold wait also for thai women that we prefer to love better that SEX.

    • 18 replies, 7,812 views

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    Pre-Marital Sex. - Part I.

    By Anonymous, Created on: 18/06/2003, Last updated on: 26/04/2007

    » Hello Mr. Rooster ; I moved this discussion to this more appropriate thread. Mr. Rooster wrote : "People are like animals, and their sexual drives will involve some types of pre-marital sex. So prostitution will be there to provide needed service. " The sexual urge is indeed extraordinarily powerful,...

    • Anonymous commented : at the study above found that sexual crime rates directly correlate with the number of unmarried males between the ages of 18 and 30 in an area. These guys are hormonally turbocharged and they aren't getting it. The current policies to reduce social evils only address the supply side. They do little to address the demand side. To keep our wives and daughters safe, in my opinion, the highest priority should be placed on forming happy marriages for all men between the ages of 18 and 30. How do we do this? (Femminists would recommend castration as an alternative but equally effective remedy to the problem). If we do not do this, then sexual crime rates and violence against women are almost guaranteed to increase. I think nobody wants that. Worse still, people will then shake their heads and wonder where all this violence is coming from. Quite simple, actually. Cheers!!

    • Anonymous commented : mes up as to where is all the sexual violence in the world coming from, the answer is really quite simple. It is coming from unmarried males between the ages of 18 and 35 (oh, that's me!). It is not coming from happily married males of similar ages. Therefore, as more and more women choose to delay marriage (for whatever reason), this doesn't lead to a happier society. It leads to a more violent society. Now that we know what the problem is, does anybody have any good ideas on how to stop this very unfortunate trend in Thailand? Does anybody (besides Rooster) care? I would hope so, but it doesn't look like it from the number of posts to this thread. I have a lot more to say about this issue, but it looks like I am just wasting time and bandwidth. Cheers!

    • Anonymous commented : Hello All ; Another startling cut from the Bangkok Post , July 24, 2003. "Epic Marriage Ends" " Taipei - The 103-year-old wife in the world's longest-lasting marriage has died. Liu Yang-wan from Taiwan was married in 1917 to Liu Yung-yang, who is now 104. Their daughter-in-law said Mrs. Liu died peacefully from natural causes. Their 86 year marriage was the longest registered in the Guiness Book of World Records, beating former American record holders by three years. According to ancient tradition, Liu Yang-wan was sent to live with her future husband's family at the age of 5, to take care of him and do household chores, relatives said. - Reuters." After the "new thinkers" get over their horror, let's take a closer look at this. Apparently, the boy was 6 and the girl was 5 when they were brought together by the familes. As a result of this arrangement, the fabric of the childrens's lives becomes so inter-twined that the very thought of separation becomes UNTHINKABLE. This is a true soul mate. This is so important that I want to say it again : if you can successfully inter-twine the children's lives, the thought of separation becomes UNTHINKABLE. This is what you need to strive for if you want a low divorce rate. Contrast this to our current "wisdom", which strives for independance, self sufficiency, strength, women's rights, men's right's, children's right's, and the whole "dating game", which takes our children's precious hearts and rips them to shreds. The new thinking cannot solve any of today's problems. Rather, it is the cause of today's problems. Who do you think will have a lower divorce rate, the "ancient tradition" mentioned above, or our "new thinking" tradition? I believe things could improve substantially if we try to fuse some of the elements of "ancient tradition" with the rigors and "artificial environments" of modern life. This is entirely possible, but so far our sociologists and cultural leaders (both in the West and in Thailand) have failed to even identify the root cause of the problems. This is why everyone is spinning out of control, and this is why I know that things will continue to get worse, MUCH, MUCH worse before they get better. Cheers!!

    • Anonymous commented : Hello All ; "Suicide is a serious public health problem." David Satcher, US Surgeon General, in 1999. Indeed, more people are killing themselves in the US than are being killed by others. And statistics don't tell the whole story. In many cases, family members deny that a death was a suicide. In addition, it is estimated that for every completed suicide, between 10 and 25 are attempted. Suicide rates worldwide have increased 60% in the last 45 years. Something is very wrong. What is it? Search the web for "teen suicide". You will be shocked. "Suicide and Loneliness. Loneliness is one of the factors that lead people to depression and suicide. Jouko Lonnqvist, who headed a study of suicides in Finland, said: "For a great number [of those who had committed suicide], everyday life was lonely. They had lots of spare time but few social contacts. Kenshiro Ohara, a psychiatrist at Hamamatsu University School of Medicine in Japan, commented that "isolation" was behind the recent surge in suicides by middle-aged men in that country." Awake! October 22, 2001. "When someone is alone with his problem, then he usually sees it as disproportionately large and unsolvable." Bela Buda, Hungarian health official. Human beings were never designed to be alone, particularly with all the pressures of modern living. Is it possible that many of these tragic suicides could have been prevented if the person had a soul mate? It is natural for parents to want to protect their children from emotional pain, and therefore try to prevent them from bonding. But these are the results. "A recent survey in Britian indicated that when children are subjected to severe bullying, they are nearly seven times as likely to attempt suicide. The emotional pain that that these children suffer is real. A 13 year old boy who hanged himself left behind a note naming five people who had tormented him and had even extorted money from him. "Please save other children," he wrote." - Awake! October 22, 2001. Wow. How tragically sad for the boy, his parents, his friends and relatives, and all of us too. Not minimizing the obvious question of why our society is spawning bulleys, we can never know if this poor boy would have committed suicide if he had a soul mate to share his problems. Then the other question begging to be asked is would this bullying even have taken place if the five named bulleys had THEIR soul mates to hopefully provide a little stabilizing influence? We think we have all the answers while our society silently crumbles around us undetected. Cheers!!

    • Anonymous commented : Most people do not understand their own cultural and religion traditions. They are often following social trend and fad. Urbanite Thais usually following western social and cultural fad. So this Thai urban sociology is very much different from normal Thai culture and teaching of Budha.

    • 20 replies, 16,987 views

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