SEARCH

Showing 1-10 of 2,908 results

    Forum

    Is Thai guy a good man to marry??

    By Anonymous, Created on: 30/06/2002, Last updated on: 18/09/2007

    » I met a Thai guy by chance and wonder if I get the right man?? Can any thai men and women give me some advise?? Thanks a lot!!

    • Anonymous commented : tional institutions. I would recommend that you dating him for at least a year or two before you attempt any relationship like sexual.

    • 14 replies, 14,207 views

    Forum

    its not always right that

    By Anonymous, Created on: 20/12/2002, Last updated on: 12/08/2010

    » actually i have a thai pretty girlfriend who being my girl for a year now. and i think thai women are serious and good one bcoz of i've known thai friends both men and women and they're not think about your money in their brain! now a days, they can work and earn as much as men can do. don't look...

    • Anonymous commented : a very happy man, and I would recommend that if you want a good wife...dont go to bars or you will get a bar fly. I got lucky that my best friend and his wife, set me up with a family member. Please email me if there are any questions, I would love to chat . charwiz

    • 27 replies, 36,653 views

    Forum

    Pre-Marital Sex. - Part I.

    By Anonymous, Created on: 18/06/2003, Last updated on: 26/04/2007

    » Hello Mr. Rooster ; I moved this discussion to this more appropriate thread. Mr. Rooster wrote : "People are like animals, and their sexual drives will involve some types of pre-marital sex. So prostitution will be there to provide needed service. " The sexual urge is indeed extraordinarily powerful,...

    • Anonymous commented : e it is coming from. I don't recommend that anyone do anything to resist the unstoppable flow of events. Resisting will only delay the sunrise. Rooster wrote : "So those who want to marry or having sex with 10 years old will have to waite awhile longer or get a single bullet. Fascinating for me is that I never said anything about having sex at 10 years old. I only said marry. I don't think two people married at 10 years old would have any interest in sex (I could be wrong). Actually what I imagine would happen is that if two young people got married, and with good support (not force) from the families, they would get to know each other over a long period of innocent childhood play and interaction. I think we would all agree that getting to know each other is an important pre-requisite and basis for any long term, meaningful relationship. Even more important, then they would have each other and not be alone (like our children are) during the hormone turbo-charged and vulnerable and self-conscious personality and sexually formative years. Two people bonded this way could resist a lot of society evils, like drugs, gangs, depression, suicide, violence. It could actually be a very powerful and beautiful thing, and not perverted as you suggest. I also believe this would solve a lot of problems with our youth, but it is up to courageous PhD social scientists to say. I always wonder why no one questions the fact that we need sex education today in schools, when we didn't need it for thousands of years. Maybe this is why. Our children are alone during the most sensitive years of their lives, and then we wonder when they make bad choices. It was not this way before. Clearly visible for everyone to see, our current system of selecting a mate (dating/love) does not work! Everyone quotes divorce rates of 50+%, but I say those statistics are nonsense, and our divorce rate is actually 99.9%! Why do I say this? I consider EVERY sexual relationship that ends to be a divorce. In other words, if two people are having a sexual relationship, then in God's eyes they should be married. This is exactly what common law marriage is all about. If that relationship ends, it is no less of a divorce because they did not get married, although it does not show up in divorce statistics. Put another way, let's say that marriage is outlawed. If no-one is getting married, then the divorce rate would fall to ZERO also! This appears to suggest that every relationship is wonderful, when in fact the reality could be very different. The picture for marriages is bleak, but the picture for singles is equally bleak. About one million or more teenage girls become pregnant every year, at a rate of 3000 per day, 80% of whom are unmarried. Out of this I million, about 500,000, decide to keep their baby, and 450,000 are aborted (or ? murdered). 100,000 decide to deliver and give the baby up for adoption. In 1950 the incidence of birth from unmarried teenagers was only 13.9%, but in 1985 it increased to 59%. In 1985 alone, 10 million cases of chlamydia, 2 million cases of gonorrhea, I million venereal warts, 0.5 million genital herpes and 90,000 syphilis were diagnosed. Not a pretty picture. So getting married does not work, and staying single does not work. Our current system does not work! It was not this way before. Cheers!!

    • Anonymous commented : by HAPPILY MARRIED men. So I recommend that anyone who wants to reduce the rate of rapes and sexual violence should take a close look at how to form happy marriages. My contention throughout this thread is to get the children together when they are young, like we did before for thousands of years, a working strategy that has withstood the test of time. Anyone have any other ideas (like managed prostitution in mideval Europe mentioned above), please post them for everyone's benefit. I think you don't need to be a rocket scientist to see the very likely correllation between happy marriages (or lack thereof) and sexual violence. Anyone (Rooster help me out here) care to make any predictions about the rate of sexual violence coming to Thailand, considering the government crack-down on prostitution, rising age of marriage, Thai women rejecting Thai men, etc?? Can any sane person think that anything will improve?? Go ahead and pass law after law after law. It won't make even a ripple in the tsanumi that is coming. We should get our execution chambers fired up and ready. For every one that we execute (or castrate!), our culture is busy breeding 10,000 more. It cannot be stopped with the tools provided by the current thinking. Sadly, in my normally safe and secure, peaceful, and beloved Thailand, there is trouble coming. I expect sharply rising numbers of sexual violence, child sexual abductions, date rapes, drugging rapes, dungeoun rapists, subway molesters, sexual murders, men hatred, over the next 30 years. Take care of your wives and daughters. The face of lovely Thailand will be changed forever. Very sad indeed. Peace!!

    • Anonymous commented : e do this? (Femminists would recommend castration as an alternative but equally effective remedy to the problem). If we do not do this, then sexual crime rates and violence against women are almost guaranteed to increase. I think nobody wants that. Worse still, people will then shake their heads and wonder where all this violence is coming from. Quite simple, actually. Cheers!!

    • 20 replies, 16,987 views

    Forum

    Learning about Thai ladies in marriage and culture

    By Anonymous, Created on: 23/08/2003, Last updated on: 21/10/2007

    » I would like to learn about the Thai lady in marriage and the Thai culture. The reason for this, is that after literally travelling the world for many years, during work commitments, and meeting along the way many ladies for serious relationships. I met along the way a lady from Thailand. We met many...

    • Anonymous commented : e like your parents. I would recommend that you learn Thai from Bangkok Post website or get a Rosetta Stone Thai language program for your computer.

    • Anonymous commented : cement in the rural area. My recommendation is that you should not get them anything expensive or un-reuseable gifts. When you visiting your-in-law, I would recommend to you to shop in the city before travelling to the rural area for household items and foods or buying them at the local market if there are available. I usually buy my cousins and others in rural area things like towels, underwears, condiments, dry foods, and etc.. If I visiting them for one week, I would buy enough foods and drinks for 2 weeks supply for everyone beside me. Please do not buy them cigarette or alcohol, social problems later. My uncle loved the solar, dynamo, and battery operated radio plus flashlight. They could take the radio out to the field with them and left it on all day. There are plenty of things that you can buy from Bangkok. Western style supermarkets and shopping center like Wal-Mart are everywhere as in other small cities. Remember, indigenous Thais are not greedy people, and sharing is very important thing in life. Oh, you should make sure to give B100.00 baht to each children in the family before you leave; it would be their saving money or candy money. The amount of money giving to older adults is often unnecessary, but it would depending on your generosity.

    • 27 replies, 16,641 views

    Forum

    family visa

    By Anonymous, Created on: 02/01/2004, Last updated on: 12/09/2006

    » When the Thai government will allow foreigners with Thai spouse and children to own a one year visa without the need to travel out of the country every 3 month or to show 800 thousands bahts in a bank account, this is very unfair and even most of the Thais don't earn this sum per year, why this discrimination...

    • Anonymous commented : Dave. I recommend that you hide a Thai lawyer to help you with the Thai laws. There are different ways to achieve property ownership. But to have the property under your name 100% is impossible for now. I have propose "no foreigner-to-foreigner transfer" of property ownership tittle to some friends, but the current political wave is all red and not blue. The property market is controlled mostly by Chinese and Indian realestate companies, they will not push this proposal. Opening the door all the way would make the indigenous Thais even poorer since all these foreign property businesses would go into cahoots as usual.

    • Anonymous commented : s suffered the most. I would recommend to any foreigners to study Thai history , social and economy before making ignorant comments and arguments. Because these people do sounded like those white South Africans, cry baby. Thailand has not go through serious jackboot crackdown to clean up corruption and impounding all the illegal gains. AMLO is still does not have the real teeth and acting like they are working for certain political interests and catching mostly the little fishes.

    • 65 replies, 24,845 views

    Forum

    Marry in Thailand 1st then Apply for Immigrant Visa to USA

    By Anonymous, Created on: 15/05/2004, Last updated on: 23/09/2007

    » I'm an US citizen living here in Northern California. I plan to get married sometime next year in Thailand to a Thai woman who works as a registered nurse, as she plans on moving here in the US afterwards. I researched the US consulate in Bangkok and US Immigration (USCIS.gov) and sort of understand...

    • Anonymous commented : GRK, I would recommend you to take Zemran’s advice because your fiance may have to wait for ages if you try to file for a US permanent resident for her in Thailand. A fiance visa usually takes 6 – 12 months to be granted but make sure that you have all your financial documents well prepared and notarized as shown in the Affidavit of Support Form. In addition, a witnessed engagement ceremony taken place in Thailand is recommended in order to avoid funny questions from the US Embassy official. Wish you all the best.

    • 17 replies, 8,925 views

Your recent history

  • Recently searched

    • Recently viewed links

      Did you find what you were looking for? Have you got some comments for us?